Squee update

[msmemory_archive]

For those of you I've tortured since lunchtime, the news may now be given: Justin and I have been invited to join Lochleven, and have accepted with delight. We're looking forward to deepening our friendships with them, and participating fully in the household (beyond having been their Guests at the last few Pennsics).

Squeee!

Comments

[herooftheage.livejournal.com]

Lots of ways. First, of course, is the additional time commitment to a group of people pretty inevitably impacts the time commitments to everyone else in one's life. Second, the mix of projects that one might now take on shifts somewhat, to accomodate the interest of the new group. Third, there's a shift in the company one keeps, which is likely to move the dependants as well as the person making the commitments.

Now being wise and prudent people, I suspect most of those changes have at least already partially happened, but I'd expect more coming in the future as well.

Now, our SCA relationships are quite simplistic compared to how relationships intertwined in period, and so I expect it'll all play out relatively simply, but you oughtn't to be surprised if you see at least some changes over the fullness of time.

[liamstliam.livejournal.com]

But I think new_man really answers the question himself: Silverwing is basically an alumni association, and I think that Windsmeet is, also.

Their own master-to-student relationships are unaffected, I think.

[baron-steffan.livejournal.com]

Silverwing is basically an alumni association

After I recovered from splorfing at my monitor %^) I realized this is as succinct a description as could be managed. Yeah, Liam, that's about it.

But since the subject has been brought up....

Some of you (herooftheage, goldsquare I think, certainly calygrey who was a member) may remember Old Silverwing. The current incarnation is very different. It's true: we don't really do anything as a household beyond the fact that some of us carry/accompany the EK Standard in Pennsic ceremonies (long story: we contributed and maintain it, like Darkyard with the War Horn). We do have a seat on Council, but have abstained on important votes (baronial elections) in the past and would likely do so in the future (although that's up to the Carolingian contingent, not to me). We're defined simply as anyone with a feudal relationship to me who doesn't deny it: that's dependents, former dependents, some few loyalists %^) from Old Silverwing (Arianwen, Johannes), and folks with explicit parallel relationships (goldsquare). But there are some important points here: (a) despite my jocular use of the term "grand-esquire", it doesn't go beyond first generation (and never has)(b) Silverwings are absolutely free to make whatever connections make them happy and fulfilled. And in regard to my dependents, let it be noted that they are allowed, indeed encouraged to talk to and interact with whomever they want. Both of my apprentices are members of other households. No worries: their household secrets are their own, and whatever Silverwings say to each other stays with us; that's a fundamental tenet.

[liamstliam.livejournal.com]

Steffan: I meant no disrepect.

I was speaking as an individual member.

I just thought this was terrific news.

[baron-steffan.livejournal.com]

Oh, no offense taken! It's just that it struck me as a funny characterization, and then I immediately realized how true and appropriate it really was.

[msmemory.livejournal.com]

In this particular case, the changes are likely to be complex indeed, since tpau will be living in cohousing with some of my household.

I expect there will be changes - there's pressure on me to pick my bow up again now that my health has improved, since shooting is customary from all able-bodied members. Also I will have more Pennsic chores and more fighter support. We'll be asked to attend more household meetings - and PARTIES! - as members. Although, as you point out, some of those changes that you might anticipate have already happened, such as our choice of Pennsic camping companions.

[tpau]

I do not really see any more changes then in i joined a graduate program, or she joined a choir or something. another time commitment making scheduling more fun, but other then that? I doubt there will be much. She just became part of an SCA household that makes up 80% of the group of people i am buying a house with in the next year.