Hangups

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I don't know what my problem is with calling vendors. It's not like I need their love and esteem. But it takes sheer force of will to call a stranger, even right out of the yellow pages, and ask them if they are able/willing to provide the service I need.

Success achieved in small way today however: left voicemail for a house painter from Watertown. Also confirmed that Ace Hardware can repair my screen door if I bring it in (turnaround about one week).

Comments

[antoniseb.livejournal.com]

I used to have this same problem, but not anymore. I think my main problem was that I was going to be speaking to a specialist, and that though I kind of knew what I wanted, I neither knew their protocol, nor their jargon. I was worried that I would sound like an idiot to this stranger.

I now allow myself to sound like an idiot. I explain that I am unfamiliar with his/her business but I have a need that I think he/she can supply, but would like to discuss it in detail. Now, believing that it is OK to express ignorance of a specialty subject, I can talk to them and ask them for advice.
When I talk to the second vendor, I'm better equipped with information and jargon.