Blithering on OES

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Last night was the last chapter meeting of Eastern Star for the year. Thank God. Wilma scheduled the thing for 7 pm, which was very considerate for the high school madrigal group who were going to perform after the meeting and not at all considerate of those of us who were going to work a full day. I had to go without dinner, and Nancy and Bob showed up at about 7:45.

Lots of nasty politics, unfortunately. Pat is cranky because Wilma wants the chapter under her administration to resemble Electa Chapter, her former chapter which merged with Palestine Chapter. Pat wants the chapter to be Palestine, with all its traditions and attitudes, showing no signs of Electa. Frankly, it's two different attitudes toward the merger (marriage) of the two chapters - Pat thinks the stepchildren should fit into the family in its unchanged form, and Wilma thinks the family should change to accommodate the newcomers. Gah! Pat is threatening to stop attending meetings and wants to know if I'll be Instructress again if she does. Wilma is snubbing Pat publically by referring to the PGMs as "you two" when Pat is the third one in the room.

We won't even get into the alleged misdeed of Carol telling Elaine that E did a bad job as Matron last year. (Which she sort of did, she was too tired & shouldn't have accepted the job for a second term, but Carol is usually too tactful to say so.)

I'm resuming considering joining a second chapter, the one I'd join if Palestine folded tomorrow. Joan and Karen and Donna and Susan, whom I know, are members there so it wouldn't be all unfamiliar. And it could be nice already being a member there as a dual member, when it does come time to close my first chapter, instead of being forced into it.

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Garb snarking, oh yeah. We get that in OES too. "Doesn't she know her skirt is supposed to be to the floor, or at least to the tops of her toes? What was she thinking?" "Did you see that hot-pink THING Micki wore last Saturday?"